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The Value of Leaving Before You’re No Longer Welcome (Prov 25:17)
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for your neighbor… is go home! As Christians, we rightly talk a lot about love—bearing burdens, meeting needs, showing hospitality, being present for people. But Scripture also reminds us that love is not just about showing up; it’s also about knowing when to leave. Tucked away in Proverbs is a surprisingly practical warning: be careful not to wear out your welcome and strain the very relationship you’re trying to build. I want to explore how Proverbs 25:17 teaches a quiet, easily overlooked aspect of Christlike love. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for someone is find the door. “Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he have his fill of you and hate you.” (Prov 25:17) One’s home has always been viewed as a sanctuary, a place of security and comfort. To invade that security and comfort…
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Understanding the Heart of Conflict: A Look at James 4:1-3
Relationships are often described as beautiful, fulfilling, and life-giving—but anyone who has spent time with other human beings knows that conflict is bound to happen. The reality is that every relationship consists of two sinners, and where sinners are involved, sin inevitably follows. This truth can be discouraging if we do not properly understand the root cause of our conflicts. Thankfully, Scripture provides clarity on this topic. One of the most relevant passages addressing the source of conflict is James 4:1-3, and in this brief article, we will explore how James’s words shed light on the conflict we often experience in our relationships. 1. Conflict Comes from Within (James 4:1a) James begins his discussion by asking a pointed question: “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?” (James 4:1). Notice that he pinpoints the origin of conflict…
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What is Racism According to the Bible?
Accusations of racism and racist behavior are commonplace in the news today. Many view racism as on the rise in America. Poll data from Gallup indicates that at least some Americans view race relations between whites and blacks at a current low point over a 20 year span. Because racism is a subject prevalent in the public eye, we need to discuss what racism actually is (biblically speaking), and how Christians should think about it. First, let’s talk about how the culture defines racism. According to Merrian-Webster, racism is defined as follows: 1: a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race 2a: a doctrine or political program based on the assumption of racism and designed to execute its principles 2b: a political or social system founded on racism 3: racial prejudice or discrimination…